The Role Of A Female Domme
Female domination, a dominatrix or a Mistress is basically a person who carries out BDSM activities on a recipient who is expected to be submissive. BDSM which stands for Bondage and Discipline, Sadism and Masochism represents a combination of practices and expressions which can be erotic or non-erotic depending on the agreement between both parties.
There are different roles played by the Dominatrix/Mistress. Their roles basically range from role playing, sensory stimulation and a variety of interpersonal dynamics. It is the woman, Dominatrix or Mistress who dominates the actions.
The Dominatrix holds a greater control and power over the situation and aims at exploring all the fun and fantasy of the recipient who in most occasions is referred to as the submissive partner. The emotional and sexual aspects of a recipient are explored in a more harmless and aggressive way. In some occasions sex is not included as part of the BDSM however it is not limited depending on the agreement between both parties. In love making actions the Dominatrix may use sticks, whips and cane to satisfy the partner.
Hitting the submissive partner and inflicting some form of mild pain produces a unique type of sexual satisfaction. This aims at relieving the stress from the body of a hard working partner or one that is always in control in different life activities. In life sometimes it feels good to be dominated especially when it comes to sexual pleasure. There is nothing wrong with being dominated since it’s simply the art of passionate sex.
The dominatrix has to follow certain rules or rather rituals of BDSM. The dominatrix has to be a woman who represents herself in a symbolic mode of Sadism as well as wearing particular attire associated with BDSM culture. The attire basically signifies the woman’s role as, dominant, strong and sexualized. It also shows that the woman is connected to but distinct to images of sexual fetish.
The Dominatrix can engage the submissive partner in sexual activities which may be physical or non-physical. Of course these services are not free since the partner will have to part with some cash depending on the charges required by the Dominatrix. The non-physical sexual activities can involve phone sex or cyber-sex. The dominatrix uses the power of words to engage the partner in a sensational sexual conversation.
As stated earlier it all depends on what you desire as a client. The Dominatrix expects his/her clients to be submissive and engaging. Prior engaging in BDSM the Dominatrix expects the clients to explain their expectations to the Dominatrix clearly. The charges will then be explained or outlined and upon agreement BDSM activities can be initiated.
Lastly, sex is a very big responsibility which requires the full participation of both partners while experiencing their feelings towards each other. Sometimes sex between partners can become boring or rather predictable. Other strategies of sexual pleasure may help to improve your sex life. Having a Dominatrix help you re-ignite your sex life is a very important step to take.